READ: Psalm 119:30-36
“Happy is he that hath the God of Jacob for his help, whose hope is in the LORD his God” – Psalm 146:5
When a woman applies the wisdom of God, she will perceive marriage in the right way. She will have a blind desire for a husband when she doesn’t understand what God is trying to do for her. You can be single and very happy. All women whether married or unmarried need to get this right. This is not a teaching for single people. It is a teaching for women.
A woman must ask herself, “What is my purpose in life?” A woman with direction is a woman who has discovered her real reason for being in this world. The real reason for every woman to be in this world is not to find a husband; neither is it to bring forth children, per se. Your purpose in this world is to serve the Lord and to do His perfect will (Ephesians 2:10).
Many married women, who have discovered this concept no longer look to their husbands for fulfilment. God has ordained great works for every woman. When an unmarried woman discovers that her main purpose is to accomplish the will of God, she will be content. When a married woman discovers that her main purpose in this life is to do the will of the Father, she will become a fulfilled woman.
If you look to your husband (even Christian husbands) for fulfilment, you will not be a happy person. If you look to God for fulfillment, you will be satisfied.
The secret to happiness is the same. Serve the Lord, give yourself to God, live for Him and thereby walk in fulfilment